6/3/2014 Sadly, a few days after I got the pictures and videos above, the female slipped into another episode of heavy breathing and inability to swim. I did water changes as I had before when she recovered, but recovery didn't happen.
I notified Kevin Kohen of the situation and he told me they had a shipment come in a few weeks prior with several multibars and he had saved a juvenile in case something did happen. Taking Memorial Day weekend to think about whether I give this one more go or move on to a different species, I decided to go ahead with one last shot.
Since I couldn't bring myself to get another free fish, I did cover some of the costs for it since it felt wrong to get a replacement for a replacement. Anyways, the new female/juvie arrived at 10:30am sharp this morning and was in the divided QT tank with the male by 11am. She is smaller than the original female from my first pair, which will add to the challenge in some ways as she will need to be fed slightly more for growth as well.
Tal mentioned that some of my conversation with Kevin would be good to include in my journal for anyone else who wants to try any finicky angels in the future:
Pairing: Though not just for finicky species, this was part of it. Kevin advised that I divide the QT when the new female arrived so she could adjust to the new environment, and highly recommended she get a larger portion of the tank. After 72 hours of being separated (all while being able to see each other) then the divider (egg crate in my case) can be removed so the two can physically interact without a barrier. At this point, observation for aggression will be needed so separation can be made if need be. Obviously, the divider should not be removed if one or the other is behaving aggressively at the sight of the other.
Just the male because it was an okay picture:
Feeding: Since pellets and flakes are much easier to use in an automatic feeder, I really want my fish to take dry foods so they can eat more if I have a long work shift or am out of town and the sitter can't feed frozen like I can when I'm around. The second pair had been partially trained on to dry foods with Kevin, but refused to even look at them with me. Kevin suggests withholding all foods but the dry foods for 3 days. During this time frame, only the dry foods should be fed and hunger should overcome the obstacle keeping the fish from eating dry foods. As luck would have it, the male began eating pellets and flakes like a champ on June 1st without my withholding other foods. Not sure what the trigger was, but he has been eating flakes and pellets with gusto since then.